Astronomer human resources exec Kristin Cabot has resigned from the tech company after she was reportedly shown on video with CEO Andy Byron, who resigned last week.

In her essay about the recent exposure of an affair on a Coldplay concert’s kiss cam, Ms. Schulman exhibits a common and troubling misunderstanding of the distinction between shame and humiliation.

The episode resulted in endless memes, parody videos and screenshots of the pair’s shocked faces filling social media feeds.